Warm evening light across Waiheke’s cultivated landscape and distant water.

TE ŪKAIPŌ

Proposed programme

Returning Home to the Natural State

Five Days on Waiheke Island

12 guests only

The Earth Remembers Who You Are

Proposed programme · Dates, duration, group size, itinerary, price, inclusions and availability remain provisional. Enquiring does not reserve a place.

There is a place beneath the noise of everyday life where nothing needs to be added.

A place of stillness, belonging and remembrance.

In te ao Māori, te ūkaipō speaks to the place that nourishes us — the source to which we belong and the place to which we return.

WAI Retreat: Te Ūkaipō is a five-day luxury immersion on Waiheke Island exploring what it means to return to our natural state through the relationship between whenua, wai, ahi, hau and wā — earth, water, fire, air and space.

The retreat begins with pōwhiri and concludes with poroporoaki, creating a journey of arrival, connection, transformation, integration and return.

A quiet moment on a Waiheke beach in warm evening light.
Photography: Te Wairua Experiences

Proposed programme · Dates, duration, group size, itinerary, price, inclusions and availability remain provisional. Enquiring does not reserve a place.

Five days. One journey home.

An arc of arrival, connection, transformation, integration and return. Open each day to explore the programme.

Day oneWHENUAArrival • Belonging
Low sunlight through trees in the project’s Waiheke photography collection.

Earth • Arrival • Belonging

The retreat begins with pōwhiri, welcoming participants onto the whenua and into the shared kaupapa of Te Ūkaipō.

The day includes:

  • settling into the retreat
  • opening pōwhiri
  • shared kai and introductions
  • introduction to Te Ūkaipō
  • introduction to the Five Elements
  • whakapapa, mauri, tapu and relationship
  • Five Elements meditation
  • gentle elemental yoga
  • walking meditation to the beach
  • barefoot connection with whenua and Te Wai
  • cranial and biodynamic treatments
  • welcome dinner
  • opening fire circle

Reflection

Where do I belong?

Day twoTE NGAHERELiving World • Ancestral Connection
An opening between old tree trunks at Whakanewha, Waiheke.

Listening to the Living World

Forest • Earth • Ancestral Connection

The second day moves into the ngahere.

We explore stillness, whakapapa, mauri and the intelligence of the living world.

The day includes:

  • meditation and conscious breathing
  • Yoga of Earth and Water
  • guided journey to the Cascades
  • contemplative native forest walk
  • mauri within the landscape
  • indigenous perspectives on the living world
  • silent walking practice
  • ancestral reflection beside water
  • guided meditation
  • catered lunch in nature
  • Māori Perspectives on Healing
  • cranial and biodynamic treatments
  • evening dinner and optional fire reflection

Reflection

We do not stand outside nature. We belong within it.

Day threeTE WAIOcean • Memory • Cactus Bay
Clear blue water and a coastal headland at Waiheke.

Ocean • Memory • Cactus Bay

Water • Whakapapa • Ancestral Connection

The third day moves fully into Te Wai.

Water is approached not simply as a resource, but as whakapapa, memory, movement and relationship.

After morning practice, we leave the land and journey by private boat along the Waiheke coastline.

Our destination is Cactus Bay — a secluded coastal sanctuary, reached from the sea and away from the more travelled parts of the island.

Here the pace slows.

There is nowhere else to be.

The day includes:

  • meditation
  • Yoga of Water
  • breakfast
  • private boat departure
  • coastal journey and kōrero
  • whakapapa of Wai
  • arrival at Cactus Bay
  • swimming and quiet exploration
  • meditation beside Te Wai
  • ancestral reflection
  • Five Elements practice
  • luxury catered picnic
  • unstructured time by the ocean
  • boat journey home
  • cranial and biodynamic treatment and integration time

Reflection

Te Wai remembers. What do we remember when we become still?

Day fourAHITransformation • Relationship • Whakamana
Warm evening light across the water at Palm Beach, Waiheke.

Transformation • Relationship • Whakamana

Fire • Healing • Integration

Day Four turns inward.

Having moved through whenua, ngahere and Te Wai, we explore ahi as transformation, warmth, creative life-force and the capacity to change our relationship with what we carry.

The day includes:

  • meditation
  • Yoga of Fire
  • teaching on ahi and transformation
  • Māori perspectives on healing
  • tapu and mauri
  • clearing energetic imprints
  • ancestral patterns and ancestral connection
  • restoring balance
  • relationship with Papatūānuku
  • whakamana
  • the Lundholm Method
  • guided relational meditation
  • cranial and biodynamic treatments
  • periods of private integration

Evening — Ahi Fire Circle

This is the central fire gathering of the retreat.

Around the fire, participants are invited to reflect:

What can be released? What needs protection? What requires rekindling? What do I wish to carry forward?

Space is held for kōrero, contemplation and silence beneath the Waiheke night sky.

Reflection

What are we ready to transform?

Day fiveWĀIntegration • Abundance • Return
Warm evening light across Waiheke’s cultivated landscape and distant water.

Space • Vineyards • Celebration • Return

Integration • Abundance • Poroporoaki

The final day opens into wā — space.

There is less to learn and more to notice.

The morning begins slowly with meditation and the final Yoga of the Five Elements practice before we journey into Waiheke’s cultivated landscape.

Vineyards offer another expression of the relationship between people and whenua — tending, patience, seasonality, transformation and abundance.

The day includes:

  • final meditation
  • Five Elements yoga
  • breakfast
  • guided journey through Waiheke’s vineyard landscape
  • selected vineyard experience
  • wine tasting
  • kōrero on whenua, cultivation and reciprocity
  • gentle vineyard walk
  • long luxury vineyard lunch
  • time for conversation, enjoyment and reflection
  • return to the retreat venue

Closing Integration

The Five Elements are revisited:

Whenua — what grounds me? Wai — what moves through me? Ahi — what gives me life? Hau — what allows me to breathe and move? Wā — what remains when I become still?

POROPOROAKI

Returning Home

The retreat concludes with poroporoaki.

We acknowledge the whenua.

Te Wai.

Those who have walked before us.

Those who have shared knowledge and experience.

The relationships formed during the retreat.

And the journeys that now continue.

The purpose of Te Ūkaipō is not to hold participants within the retreat.

It is to send them home strengthened.

Back to their whānau.

Back to their work.

Back to their relationships.

Back to the places for which they themselves carry responsibility.

The retreat closes with karakia and farewell.

Nothing has been added. Something has been remembered.

Space to listen. Time to reconnect.

Daily meditation and conscious breathing

Simple practices you can carry home and integrate into everyday life.

The Lundholm Method

An eleven-step guided meditation exploring emotional patterns and blockages within relationships, with the intention of creating greater clarity, compassion and freedom.

Cranial and Biodynamic Treatments

Individual restorative sessions supporting deep relaxation, embodied awareness, stillness and integration.

Fire Circles

Evening gatherings for kōrero, silence and reflection beneath the Waiheke sky.

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Over five days, Te Ūkaipō weaves together:

Daily meditation and conscious breathing

Simple practices you can carry home and integrate into everyday life.

Yoga of the Five Elements

Embodied movement exploring earth, water, fire, air and space.

Whakapapa of the Elements

An introduction to Māori understandings of creation, mauri, whenua, Wai and the interconnected nature of life.

Māori Perspectives on Healing

Kōrero and guided experience exploring:

  • clearing energetic imprints
  • ancestral patterns and connection
  • restoring balance
  • tapu and mauri
  • relationship with Papatūānuku
  • whakamana — strengthening life, dignity and relationship
  • alignment with self, ancestors and the living world

The Lundholm Method

An eleven-step guided meditation exploring emotional patterns and blockages within relationships, with the intention of creating greater clarity, compassion and freedom.

Cranial and Biodynamic Treatments

Individual restorative sessions supporting deep relaxation, embodied awareness, stillness and integration.

Fire Circles

Evening gatherings for kōrero, silence and reflection beneath the Waiheke sky.

Warm evening light across the water at Palm Beach, Waiheke.

The island becomes part of the retreat.

Waiheke itself becomes part of the teaching.

The rhythm of the retreat moves between inner practice and outward experience.

Between whenua and Te Wai.

Clear blue water and a coastal headland at Waiheke.

Between stillness and movement.

Between whenua and Te Wai.

Your hosts

Paora and Ines together beside the water.

Paora Te Oti Takarangi

Paora is co-founder of Te Wairua Experiences, a Māori cultural guide, filmmaker and practitioner whose work brings together whakapapa, whenua, wellbeing, storytelling and the relationship between people and the natural world.

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His approach draws upon mātauranga, lived cultural knowledge, contemplative practice, psychology and healing traditions.

Through Te Wairua Experiences, Paora creates journeys that invite people beyond observation and into relationship — with whenua, Te Wai, ancestors, the elements and ultimately themselves.

The Earth Remembers Who You Are.

Ines Backhaus

Ines Backhaus is co-founder of Te Wairua Experiences and an experienced cranial therapist whose work centres on the body’s inherent capacity for balance, regulation and restoration.

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Her approach is gentle, subtle and whole-person focused, supporting deep relaxation, embodied awareness and the body’s natural processes of integration and renewal.

During Te Ūkaipō, Ines offers cranial and biodynamic treatment experiences and contributes to the retreat’s exploration of embodiment, stillness, restoration and our relationship with the natural world.

Together, Paora and Ines bring the cultural, contemplative and embodied dimensions of Te Wairua Experiences into one integrated retreat journey.

Guest facilitators

Selected guest facilitators and practitioners will join Te Ūkaipō at different times throughout the five days.

These may include cultural knowledge holders, bodyworkers, movement practitioners, teachers, artists and other specialists whose work complements the kaupapa of the retreat.

Their involvement allows each Te Ūkaipō experience to remain intimate, alive and responsive.

Proposed programme · Dates, duration, group size, itinerary, price, inclusions and availability remain provisional. Enquiring does not reserve a place.

Come as you are.

Te Ūkaipō is for those who feel the need to slow down, reconnect and listen more deeply.

No previous experience of meditation, yoga or Māori cultural practice is required.

Only openness, curiosity and a willingness to participate.

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You may be seeking renewal after a period of change.

You may want to reconnect with nature, ancestors or yourself.

You may be curious about indigenous perspectives on wellbeing.

Or you may simply feel the need for more space, stillness and meaning in everyday life.

Your home on Waiheke

The retreat will be held at a carefully selected private Waiheke Island venue offering comfort, beautiful natural surroundings and space for meditation, movement, treatments and rest.

The group is limited to 12 participants, allowing intimacy, personal attention and space.

Accommodation and all meals are included.

An all-inclusive retreat

Ferry travel to and from Waiheke Island is not included.

Explore everything included
  • five-day retreat programme
  • four nights’ accommodation
  • all catered breakfasts, lunches and dinners
  • opening pōwhiri
  • closing poroporoaki
  • daily meditation and conscious breathing
  • Yoga of the Five Elements
  • Māori perspectives on whakapapa, mauri and wellbeing
  • Lundholm Method guided practice
  • individual cranial and biodynamic treatment
  • fire-circle gatherings
  • guided Cascades and native forest journey
  • Waiheke cultural and ancestral landscape journey
  • private boat journey along the Waiheke coastline
  • Cactus Bay experience
  • luxury catered Cactus Bay picnic
  • vineyard experience and tasting
  • luxury vineyard lunch
  • guided coastal experiences
  • all retreat transport on Waiheke
  • selected guest facilitators
  • retreat materials
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Proposed programme · Dates, duration, group size, itinerary, price, inclusions and availability remain provisional. Enquiring does not reserve a place.

A spacious daily rhythm

Approximately 6–7 hours of structured retreat experience each day, leaving generous time for rest, swimming, beach walks, conversation and personal reflection.

Morning Meditation • Breath • Five Elements Yoga • Breakfast

Late Morning / Afternoon Forest • Whenua • Te Wai • Cultural Journey • Ocean • Vineyard

Afternoon Teaching • Cranial and Biodynamic Treatment • Integration

Evening Dinner • Fire Circle • Rest • Quiet Reflection

The Earth Remembers Who You Are

TE ŪKAIPŌ

Five days to return.

Five elements to remember.

One journey home to yourself.

12 places only.

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